Divorce Advice for Men

Child Custody: Make Sure You Do Your Homework

mattoc1964 — Tue, 07 Dec 2010 23:05:37 +0000

Learn as much as you can about your kids if you want custody. The judge needs to know that you are a daily participant in their lives. You should know who cares for them, and what they need. . Here are some of the places you can get information.

1. School:

If you know anything about your child’s accademic career, you should know who is teaching him. You should know what grades he is getting, and what was said at the last parent / teacher meeting. You should also be familiar with the scheduling of school programs and field trips in which your child is involved.

Parents who say their kids’ education is important to them often go to court with no idea who is teaching them, or even what grade they are in. You should always have copies of their report cards and teacher evaluations if you want to convince the judge that you are on top of their school activities. Make a point of understanding any recommendations the teacher may have,

Is Love Enough to Save You from Divorce?

mattoc1964 — Wed, 01 Dec 2010 00:46:10 +0000

Sometimes divorce might look like the only solution for a bleak marriage but if there are still feelings there, it is never too late. If you still love your partner, the rest can be worked on. Perhaps love for one another is the only thing you feel you still have in common.

Maybe you cannot talk without arguing or fighting. Maybe you feel you partner has been neglecting you for years and will never change. Maybe you have not been sexually intimate for a long time and this will never get better. The fact remains that you still love one another, even with all of these other problems and issues.

It helps to think about what your relationship was like before it started becoming problematic. It was obviously far better, else you never would have got married. There are exceptions, of course, such as marrying because of an accidental pregnancy, even though you didn’t know each other well enough, but usually a couple who were happy once can find this happiness again. They just have to kn

Child Custody Schedule: Spend More Time With Your Child through Vacation Time

mattoc1964 — Fri, 26 Nov 2010 16:02:56 +0000

A Child Custody Schedule
Many people want to know more about child custody. Are you one of them? If so, you might find the following article helpful in your search for information. We hope you find some useful pointers.

“How can I have more time with my child?” is a common question that comes from divorced parents. Juggling the demands of both parents’ home and work schedules and considering the best interests of the child can be difficult when setting up a child custody schedule. Oftentimes the easiest (and necessary) thing to do is to establish one parent as a custodial parent where the child spends the majority of time.

However, this schedule may make the non-custodial parent may feel like they don’t have as much time as he/she would like with the child. A non-custodial may feel at a loss though, because the child visitation schedule has been set up for stability for the child. But, parents who wish to have more time with their children can make some simple adjustments to t

Post Divorce: Making Visitation Easier For The Kids

mattoc1964 — Sun, 21 Nov 2010 15:23:58 +0000

Switching between Mom’s house and Dad’s house after a divorce can be difficult and stressful for children, but the manner that parents approach transition times can have a big impact on how children react.

It is important for parents to realize that children have worries, concerns, hopes and fears about the divorce or separation, and times of visitation can often bring a lot of those concerns to the surface, especially if there is conflict between parents.

Research very clearly shows that the amount of conflict that children are exposed to before, during and after the divorce determines how well children will adjust to the divorce. If the conflict continues or gets worse during visitation times, or any other time, children are more likely to have emotional and behavioral problems. Children that see parents being civil and respectful of each other after a divorce are more likely to feel loved, secure and safe and are less likely to have ongoing emotional or behavioral problems.

The Basics Of Minnesota Divorce Law

mattoc1964 — Wed, 03 Nov 2010 14:48:51 +0000

If you are filing for a divorce in the state on Minnesota, there are a few things you should know. If you know the basics of the process before you start, you’ll be prepared and will probably find the process smoother. Here are some of the basic facts that you should know.

The initial document that needs to be filed with the Minnesota court when requesting for a divorce is called the Petition for Dissolution of Marriage. The filing spouse will have to use this document to request the court to terminate the marriage under certain specific grounds. If both parties submit the petition jointly as Co-Petitioners it eliminates the necessity for the use of summons or for service of process.

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Child Custody: San Diego Divorce Cases – Part 2

mattoc1964 — Mon, 25 Oct 2010 22:26:34 +0000

Although this is not the norm, it can happen that emotionally unstable parents feel the decision on child custody of the judge to be so unjust that they have to take the issue into their own hands.

The kidnapping is possible because the child will trust the non-custodial parent, so the little one may be taken away without much ado.

If there is a need for a stronger confrontation, the threat of fire weapons may be used, which is possible in the case of a San Diego divorce given the extensive availability of fire guns in California.

When the situation gets aggravated to such an extent, it is usually only the divorce lawyer that can intervene. The attorney will first establish the legal framework for getting the child back to the custodial parent. In order to do this, the lawyer will go back to the judge of the San Diego divorce trial and ask for a restraining order against the non-custodial parent, thus emphasizing the danger that he/ she represents for the child.

The lawyer

Child Custody: San Diego Divorce Cases – Part 1

mattoc1964 — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 16:30:15 +0000

With the increase in the number of San Diego divorce cases, there comes a complication of the issue of child custody to an extent that could not have been imagined before. A San Diego divorce case does not entail just the problem of the separation of the two spouses, but also the division of assets, assigning child custody and handling the taxes in a beneficial way for the divorcing parties.

Because of the legal complications of the San Diego divorce cases and the associated child custody hearings, lawyers find themselves getting closer and closer to the separating couple, to the extent of becoming some sort of personal advisers. On many occasions, the lawyer is the only one to be able to properly deal with the complexities of a San Diego divorce.

A San Diego divorce can become so stressful that the members of the couple end up losing control of their behavior, especially when child custody is at stake.

The issue of child custody may appear during several stages of a San Diego

Advice From A Divorce Attorney?

mattoc1964 — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 22:43:52 +0000

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I am not ignorant enough to believe that I will see all cases of divorce end during my lifetime, nor am I ignorant enough to believe that all divorce cases even should be prevented.

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Divorce: The Truth About Lawyers – Part 1

mattoc1964 — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 12:34:40 +0000

During the matter of my divorce (that’s lawyer talk – it’s always the matter of this and the matter of that), I spent about $30,000 on three different attorneys in an extremely frustrating effort just to be able to see my own children. As each lawyer failed to obtain one single worthwhile benefit for me, I fired them and hired another one.

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What Happens to Assets Without a Trust During Divorce?

mattoc1964 — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 01:16:51 +0000

We will take a look at what happens to assets without a trust during divorce in the following article. It is a good place to start if you are new to the subject. There is a lot more information
available for those that want to make a more detailed study.

For the married couple, it is truly essential that an estate is properly structured, legally protected, and the disposition of assets in the case of separation clearly defined. If you have not yet started a trust for your assets as a propert